The Firsts!!
Life is a strange thing. When you least expect something to happen, it happens.
Human being is another strange thing. When they don’t expect anything to happen and it happens, they count it to be their first and remember it like forever. The first hug, the first kiss, the first meeting, the first drive etc. Then comes the first week anniversaries, monthly anniversaries, yearly celebrations and so on.. This is not only for happy moments.. Human beings create firsts for sad or rather slightly off track moments as well. Say, the first day we din’t talk, the first day we didn’t see each other, the first fight, the first time they spent a week away from each other and so on.
The list of firsts never ends. And so the celebrations and grumpy behaviours also continue. It’s like a cycle that goes on. The same person who becomes the reason for one’s happy celebrations, becomes the sole cause of one’s sad moments as wee (obviously accompanied with one’s high level of expectations)
But then the human brain continues working in a crazy way. It does not just gets satisfies with “the firsts”. The cycle of happiness, sadness, waiting to meet the person and again butterflies and happiness keeps going. This is how life is! Nothing much can be done to alter the course of life. And at the same time nothing much can be done to forget the moments lived. It’s better to keep happy memories and let go off the sad ones. Happiness attracts happiness.
Happy Firsts!!